Friday, December 17, 2010

Holiday Memories Shared ... Priceless!

How sweet it was to have so many of you share your special holiday memories and traditions!  There's something very special about them, perhaps more precious than any other life's memories.

I was amazed at how some of your memories were so similar to some of mine.  For instance, Ayala's cat in the manger (except ours was a puppy), or Carapace preserving those old salt dough ornaments.  (I still save the cookie ornaments my nieces and nephews colored for me, even though a mouse nibbled at them when they were in storage one year!)

Christina talked about her traditional Ukranian dinner, and waiting until the first evening star before they could eat. We always had (still do) a traditional Polish dinner, and my sister's family always made their youngest child watch for the evening star. (They complained about the cold outside, but I think the youngest were secretly proud of their singular importance when they happily and loudly announced the appearance of the first star!)

Many of you spoke about your gift opening traditions, or those special ornaments you were given, such as the ornaments that Olivia's boyfriend gave her. The caroling, Nativity calendars, riding home from visiting family.  (I always fell asleep and wished we would ride forever so I didn't have to wake up and run into the house because it was so cold outside.)

 I loved Christina's story that her dad would wake them on Christmas Eve and point out that red light in the sky and tell them it was Rudolph's nose!  Awww - how sweet!  I will probably think of that now every time I see the red lights of an airplane in the sky!

I also smiled at Lisa's story of creating a different kind of very untraditional tree every year.  My artist heart loves that idea!

It was such a treat to read ALL of your stories. I thank you for sharing them.

I said I would choose one story that resonated the most with me. The story I chose reminded me that my childhood Christmases were modest ones - nine children in one household did not make for very extravagant holidays.  Sometimes I think the only gifts we got were the care boxes delivered by the local Goodfellows charity. But we always had a traditional meal, and we always had a Christmas tree, and we always sang carols, and we always had each other. That's why this story by VERYMARRIED reduced me to tears of sweet remembrance:

This one is a nice one for me to remember this year when I'm looking for work and the recession has hit a little harder than expected: When I was 6 and my parents had just divorced, I was living in a 4-plex with my mom and sister. We had a pine tree out front that we decorated with off-brand fruitloops on a string. We couldn't afford to go out and buy our own tree. I think singing along to Christmas music while stringing those fruit loops is my favorite Christmas memory - it reminds me that total happiness can come even when you don't have the fancy things that others might have.

Thank you, verymarried, for so eloquently expressing the true meaning of the season. 

The second winner's story chosen by random number generator is #10:

Lizzie Brown said...

My favorite Christmas is THIS Christmas! We've already had Christmas in our house because my husband is deployed. About a week ago I was sewing (with my crappy old machine) on the dining room table (my work station which is never used to actually eating at) and my husband came and told me our 11 month old son, Adam, had something to show me. I followed him back to our guest room and I saw a new wooden work desk and a new fabulous sewing machine (that I had pointed out to my husband, but decided it was too expensive to get right then) all set up and ready to go! It had a card that said, "Mery Crismas Mommy! Luv, Adam". I cried and laughed. I have the best two guys in the world. 
Thank you, Lizzie. That is sweet, and it will be one of your special Christmas memories for many years to come! 

Once again, thank you, everyone, for taking this stroll down memory lane with me.  One last message:

Mery Crismas!!
Note: I cannot find an email address for either one of you.  Please contact me immediately at  And, people, PLEASE either include your email in your post, OR put it in your profile, OR put it in your blog.  Better yet, do all three.  


  1. these are all such wonderful stories! I'm honored to be chosen!


  2. I tried emailing you but I haven't heard back. Here is mine:


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